16 tips to survive and enjoy Tokyo Disney with young kids (especially in summer)

As some of you might know, we recently went on an 11 day family holiday to Tokyo, our longest flight yet with 2 kids and the first time we have gone on a holiday without any help. So how did we survive 4 hot summer days in Tokyo Disneyland and Tokyo Disneysea with 2 young kids? Here are some things which we learnt during our 4-day Disney adventure and we hope these tips will come in handy to those of you who are heading there soon or are thinking of doing so. 🙂
  • Bring your own strollers. While you can rent the strollers from the park at 700yen a day, we chose to bring our own strollers. Strollers will come in handy when your kids are exhausted and so are you! You can also use them to hang your belongings while you go for your rides. There are designated stroller parking next to every ride and staff on hand to keep a watch and re-arrange the strollers neatly. Take note though that most shows and parades are ‘sitting shows’ which will require you to collapse your strollers during the parades and shows so bring something lightweight and easy to collapse.
When they can walk no more and you can carry no more...

When they can walk no more and you can carry no more…

  • Pack light and pack waterproof. Don’t bring huge bags that will slow you down or be ultra cumbersome. We bought a waterproof Deuter ‘pouch’/’bag’ before our trip and it was very handy to hold our tickets (which we further protected with a Ziploc bag), our overseas Wifi router, 2 pieces of diapers and Jah’s Travel John Junior pee bag. It was easy to hang it on 1 of the stroller when on the move and just as easy to hold onto it when we parked our strollers and went for rides.

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  • Use lots of sunscreen lotion or try the sunscreen sprays. Remember to slap on your sunscreen lotion or bring along some sunscreen sprays which can be found at most supermarkets or drug stores in Tokyo. We were under the hot sun a lot but the Laneige sunscreen lotion which we brought from Singapore (which by the way smells awesome) plus the sunscreen spray which we bought in Tokyo were our saving grace. For people who burn really easily, we were perfectly fine just from using these 2 products.
The 2 products that saved us from massive sunburn

The 2 products that saved us from massive sunburn

  • Don’t avoid Disney even if it rains. Well unless it’s a torrential thunderstorm, I would say raincoats and windbreakers will easily do the trick. So arm yourself with some raincoats especially for the little ones and don’t let the weather put a damper on your Disney Spirit.
It rained on and off and it was good to not have to worry that their little heads would get wet...

It rained on and off and it was good to not have to worry that their little heads would get wet…

  • Check the crowd calendar. There are crowd calendars online which gauge the crowd levels on any given day for both Tokyo Disney Sea and Tokyo Disneyland. The crowd levels get more accurate as the day approaches. We used Crowd Calendar and we were there when crowd levels were supposedly between 60 to 65 and had very manageable queuing times especially for the kiddy rides in the evenings. Waiting times were 20 minutes to none at all for some rides.

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  • Take it easy and don’t queue for an hour before opening time. If you are going on a relatively low crowd level day meaning 50 – 70 then I would suggest taking it easy. Don’t queue up to an hour before opening time like people say they do. Get there at opening time or within 30 mins from opening time and you will still be able to make it in fine and get your Fast passes. Standing in queue for 1 hour before the park opens is not going to help much except for having half tired and cranky kids by the time the gates open and it is also a sure-fire way to ensure snappy parents J:) However if you are going on a weekend or a red alert day (See crowd calendar) then I guess you will have to strategise how you would like to queue, wait and rush.
  • Check the ‘real time’ waiting time update from your handphone. This requires an internet connection so you will need to either have data roaming or an overseas wifi router. This website came in very handy when we wanted to decide if it was worth the effort travelling across the park for a Fastpass or for a ride. Real time Waiting Time
  • Aim for 1 Fastpass each morning and go collect it as soon as you can. Our crowd level was in the 60s range and we ‘strolled’ in within the 30 mins of the park opening and always managed to secure a Fast pass for the 10am to 1130am range. After completing that ride or just before we head back for our nap, we would go collect another Fastpass (Usually for the same ride) and usually end up with a 6pm to 8pm time range. If you are going on a day where the crowd level is higher than perhaps your Fastpass timings might be later or might run out early. We had Fastpasses for rides like Monsters Inc, 20,000 Leagues under the Sea and Astro Blasters in fact we took Monsters Hide and Seek (4-5 times!!!) Some rides are more popular than others and you can use the “Real time waiting time website to give you a gauge on the Fastpass timings instead of rushing across the park to realise that the Fastpasses have been snapped up.
Just some of the Fastpasses we managed to get our hands on...it truly makes the experience that much more pleasant especially for the kids

Just some of the Fastpasses we managed to get our hands on…it truly makes the experience that much more pleasant especially for the kids

  • Don’t be put off by the Table Service Restaurants in Disney. They can be a total life saver and they serve pretty yummy food! We were worried that the kids would not be able to endure a proper sit down meal especially with the prospects of rides and fun looming nearby or because they were cranky from the fatigue. I was proven wrong. We tried 3 different table service restaurants – Blue Bayou which is a restaurant situated alongside the Pirates of the Carribean boat ride. We spotted the nice, cool, dim restaurant as we started our boat ride and Jah was hooked and needed to go have a ‘pirate’ meal. We had such a enjoyable time there that we were looking forward to our next Table Service meal. We also tried Hokusai – a Japanese restaurant and Eastside Dining – an Italian restaurant (both located near the entrance of Disneyland.

The kids set at the Blue Bayou was pre cut into nice bite sized pieces!!! I didn't have to waste time cutting them up for the kids!

The kids set at the Blue Bayou was pre cut into nice bite sized pieces!!! I didn’t have to waste time cutting them up for the kids!


Fast service at Eastside Dining and we didn't have to queue for a seat...

Fast service at Eastside Dining and we didn’t have to queue for a seat…


Always a queue at Hokusai! There was a 30 mins even at 6pm

Always a queue at Hokusai! There was a 30 mins even at 6pm

  • Eat in Disney – counter style, table service, pop up carts, character dining…try it all! I know some people may choose to leave Disney for meals or to bring in their own snacks. Trust me the food at Tokyo Disney is really not expensive compared to what you pay in the nearby malls and it really completes the experience. Furthermore no rushing back and forth. My one tip would be to eat early or find a place with not a long waiting time..you will be able to find something for sure. The queues and the service at the F&B outlets move pretty fast and seats get freed up pretty quickly because everybody is rushing off to their next ride.

Breakfast for champions!

Breakfast for champions!


Super yummy pizza! Shaved Ice! And a frozen Kirin beer for Papa Joel...yes frozen!

Super yummy pizza! Shaved Ice! And a frozen Kirin beer for Papa Joel…yes frozen!


Ice cream! Flavoured ice cubes! Waffles! Popcorns!!

Ice cream! Flavoured ice cubes! Waffles! Popcorns!!

  • Go for Crystal Palace Dining Character Buffet. If there is one dining experience that you or your kids must have in Tokyo Disneyland, it would be the character dining. I screwed up big time because I had made a booking for a Dinner Showtime Character Dining experience but ended up mixing up the dates. As guilty as I was, I wasn’t about to queue for an hour just so that the kids could meet 1 character and take a photo so thank goodness, we found the next best thing. More on this experience in the coming entries.
Well at least 1 kid was happy..Bella was just petrified

Well at least 1 kid was happy..Bella was just petrified

  • Shop at Disney before you shop at the toy stores in the city especially if your kid is a Takara Tomy fan. We made the mistake of shopping in the city before our Disney days and found lots of special Disney edition Takara Tomy cars and playsets which I have never seen in any Singapore or Tokyo toy store. Needless to say, we ended buying them as well on top of what we had already bought in the city.
Literally a toy wonderland

Literally a toy wonderland

  • Some Disney products are actually very practical to-haves and are not just ‘merchandise’. Yes I used to scoff at the countless ‘merchandise’ that these theme parks try to sell us or our children at every turn. But I have to say that some of these ‘merchandise’ really do serve a purpose especially in the summer heat. We loved the nice caps/ hats/ bandanas for the kids, the little fan mist sprayer as well as the big manual fans.

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  • If your kids are my age than Disneyland is more suited for them over Disney Sea. While we (the adults) loved the ambience and backdrop of Disneysea, we found the layout extremely frustrating. There were pretty much no short cuts to get from ‘land to land’ and there were only 2 routes (to the left or to the right of the harbour). This meant that the ‘travelling time’ within Disneysea was a lot longer and more tiring when tiring to bring kids around. The rides were also less child-friendly or less interesting to the kids. We concluded that Disneyland was more of a ‘ride place’ while Disneysea was more of a ‘show place’. Jah pretty much gave us the same feedback about his preference for Disneyland over Disneysea and we found ourselves in Disneyland for 3 out of the 4 days.
  • Catch the Fantasmic show over the Dreamlights Parade While we preferred Disneyland over Disneysea, we would choose the Fantasmic show at Disneysea over all the other parades and show any day. If you only have time to catch 1 show during your Disney visit then it has to be the Fantasmic show. Totally worth it! We waited 1 hour for the show to start and it didn’t disappoint. It was so good that I didn’t take any photos until the end of the show and we had a fantastic view of fireworks right over our heads. Tip: The view to the left of the harbour is pretty awesome so wait along the sides where there are little canoes parked in the water rather than clamour for a spot that is front and centre of the harbour.
  • You don’t always need a front view. While it would be awesome to be able to get front row front views of the parades and special shows all the time. After all the back drop of Cinderella’s castle always makes for a good photo. We realised on our trip that side views can be hidden gems as well. For one, you don’t have to queue early or wait hours on end (yes I mean hours, I have witness people sitting in the hot sun for 2-3 hours just to get those spots). So here are some hidden gems that we found.
  • For stage shows that happen in front of the castle, we found that the ‘bridge’ on the left of the castle can be a nice shady spot to enjoy the entertainment. Though it would give you a back view of the characters, you can still hear the music and feel the vibe.
  • Toon town is a good spot to wait for the Dreamlights parade. While you would be catching the tailend of the parade because it is the last stop that they hit before retiring behind closed ‘gates’, it brings you pretty close to the floats and I found that it is less crowded than the main street.
  • If you can help it, don’t wait on the main street for the evening Disneyland Parade (Happiness on High) instead I would suggest you proceed towards Tomorrowland. There are less crowds waiting there and you are likely to find an open spot in the first row.
  • We never caught the 830pm night castle show in front of Cinderella’s castle but we did catch a glimpse of the fireworks from behind the castle by chance. So if you are after a view of the fireworks but don’t think your kids can last through the show then hang out behind the castle, near the Carousel or Small Small World.

Side view of the performance happening in front of the castle

Side view of the performance happening in front of the castle


Dreamlights parade from Toon Town (I did not zoom) and Fantasmic Show at Disneysea

Dreamlights parade from Toon Town (I did not zoom) and Fantasmic Show at Disneysea


Front row spot in Tomorrowland for the Disney Happiness on High Parade...bring any mat or plastic to mark out your spot :)

Front row spot in Tomorrowland for the Disney Happiness on High Parade…bring any mat or plastic to mark out your spot 🙂

And for those who are wondering how many days you would need to cover both Disney park with young kids. A 2 day pass is probably enough if you don’t need to factor naps back in the hotel and you intend to cover 1 park a day. If you want to move at a more leisurely pace then a 3 day pass will allow you to do so and still head back for afternoon naps (if you stay at one of the Disney Hotels or the nearby Disney Official hotels).  A 4 day pass is very relaxed and you get to do rides over and over again and catch most shows :). You will also get to choose which park you want to go to on the 3rd and 4th day and in fact can go both on the same day. Don’t worry you will always find something to do and if all else fails, just do some Disney shopping. Actually I highly recommend you do so…you will get sucked into all the Disney shopping so just embrace it. 😉

I hope these tips were helpful and that you enjoy Tokyo Disney as much as we did!

Happy Traveling!

JahBella’s Mummy

JahBella @ the Singapore Zoo – Should we renew our membership?

We have had our Singapore Zoo Family Annual Membership for almost 2 years now and we are starting to wonder if we should renew it for the 3rd consecutive run. After all we seem to be using it a lot less in recent times and how many times can a kid visit the zoo right?

So we decided to head to the zoo for ‘one last time’ before our annual membership ends in 2 weeks time and see if the zoo still holds the same appeal for the kids.

Since we forgot our umbrella strollers and neither parent was in the mood to carry a 13-15kg child in this hot weather, the kids were in for a treat! We rented a little wagon for them to enjoy their ‘ride’ through the zoo. The wagon could fit two kids comfortably and it cost S$15 for a full day rental. We were there for about 2 hours but it was still good fun and better than dragging tired kids around.

Did we really succeed in getting everyone to  look at the camera and smile?!!!!

Did we really succeed in getting everyone to look at the camera and smile?!!!!

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We visited the Koala Enclosure which was all the craze over the June School Holidays. There was a sign outside which informed us of the estimated wait (20 mins according to the sign) but we only waited 10 mins. I loved it! (for the aircon! :p) The kids were curious about the koalas for all of 5 minutes and then Jah wanted to go for the Elephant show. (To be fair, Bella was alittle more ‘nurturing’ and liked the little bears abit more.)

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Now the Elephant show, yes the ever elusive Elephant Show! We have been to the zoo countless times over the past 2 years but no we have not caught the Elephant show. In fact we have seen all the shows and even some shows twice or thrice but we always can’t seem to get to this one on time. However getting to the Elephant show and ensuring that we had a seat for everyone, meant that we had to forgo the giraffe feeding and the Animal Show at the Kids area). In fact we almost didn’t get a seat because the seating is really limited and it runs out so quickly.

Surprisingly the kids were ok with waiting 30 minutes for the show to begin and it was pretty fun. Jah apparently wants to come back for the Elephant show again the next time. But someone probably has to remind him that that means no giraffe feedings and what not.

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After grabbing our customary Fanta Slushies in the special tall bottles, we were off for lunch. One of the reasons, I don’t fancy coming to the zoo is because I always have trouble figuring out how to feed the kids after. The choice of F&B or lack of really bugs me because there is so much potential and space here but so little ideas. I absolutely hate having to eat KFC everytime we come to the zoo and they don’t even have the breakfast options available. 😦

So I was quite excited relieved to find out that they had open a few new F&B outlets at the entrance of the zoo. This meant variety as well as a fast exit to the car after lunch. We decided to try out Chawang Café which served pasta, fish and chips and a few varieties of hotdog buns. I was pleasantly surprised by the quality of the food and the speed of the service.  That being said, I wished they had some options for the kids or at least a kid sized portion. (Side note: I would go for the hotdog buns over the fish and chips which Jah rejected because he didn’t like the ‘oily’ taste’. The hotdog buns were pretty decent with their different toppings and sauces).

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So will JahBella be renewing their Annual Family Membership for the consecutive run? At less than S$200 per annum for a family of 4, we will have to go to the zoo at least twice in the year to make it worth our while/ money. I say why not! After all the kids do love the Singapore Zoo and we do have one of the best zoos in the world don’t we? 🙂

JahBella’s Mummy

Katong Kitchen Buffet @ Katong Village Hotel – Review

The last weekend was quite the week of feasting in fact we decided to attempt something which we have never done with the kids before. A buffet!!!!!  Ok to be fair this was their 2nd buffet but their 1st with just us and with no aunties or uncles to distract them while mummy and papa gets to eat. So I was abit apprehensive because I really really needed both kids to be cooperative, like the food and the environment and allow us to at least have a decent shot at the buffet table. It didn’t help that Jah was being extremely disruptive just before lunch and Joel had suggested no less than 5 times that we should perhaps postpone the buffet lunch to another day. I was determined to have my Nonya buffet lunch that day but I was also really stressed out and worried that I was going to end up with an “I told you so” from Joel. Thankfully it turned out fine..better than fine.

We made a reservation for 12pm at the Katong Kitchen located on the 4th floor of Katong Village Hotel. We were 10 minutes early and asked to sit around and wait while the staff continued to prep the buffet table. Jah was immediately drawn to the seafood table when he saw the mussels and Joel and I were really surprised that he actually went on to eating quite a number of these cold mussels.

Eager for 12pm to come

Eager for 12pm to come

The spread was mainly Peranakan cuisine ranging from hot food buffet spread to a laksa stand as well as a DIY Rojak and Kueh Pie Tee. However they also injected alittle variety by having a seafood table, sushi area, salad bar, waffles stand and a dessert table which had a mix of nonya desserts as well as your regular cakes.

Cold Seafood Spread

Cold Seafood Spread

Normally the first thing I go for but I didn't even get the chance to eat these because the rest of the spread was just too good!

Normally the first thing I go for but I didn’t even get the chance to eat these because the rest of the spread was just too good!

Hot food spread

Hot food spread

DIY Rojak

DIY Rojak

DIY Kueh Pie Tee

DIY Kueh Pie Tee

I have to say I was very impressed with the quality of the food! While I probably would not equate it to the standard of a Peranakan restaurants. It was nevertheless a good variety of food with decent quality and priced very affordably. I usually don’t like going for buffets because 1) you don’t get to eat leisurely with kids and 2) it is always a struggle between variety and quality but I would say the buffet at Katong Kitchen hit the spot. There was really something for everyone! Even my pickiest child (Jah) ate…a lot!

Sure there were a few spicy dishes which the kids could not take but there were more than enough kid friendly items to keep them full and enticed. Jah enjoyed his silverfish fried rice with freshly bbq-ed satay as well as his cold mussels. He also enjoyed freshly baked waffles served with chocolate soft serve ice-cream that he got to decorate with toppings and drizzle with chocolate sauce and he got to make his own ice-kachang as well (ok mummy made the ice kachang). Bella savoured her ee-fu noodles and well ate everything else including tons of keropok (minus the sambal which was available in abundance).

Everyone had their own waffle with soft serve ice-cream

Everyone had their own waffle with soft serve ice-cream

Ice-Kacang Machine!

Ice-Kacang Machine!

Keropok with an abundance of sambal

Keropok with an abundance of sambal

Nonya Kuehs!

Nonya Kuehs!

Super spoilt for choice

Super spoilt for choice

The adults ate everything and I even got to make rojak and kueh pie tee for the family by following the simple instructions they had on display. We spent a leisurely 1.5 to 2 hours at lunch which is unheard of in our family but everyone had so much fun and the staff were ever helpful and always on hand. Oh and before I forget, do order their own fruity ice tea concoction! It was simple thirst quenching with a little fizz..totally love! In fact Jah loved it so much that he was competing with us for refills.

Easy Peasy!

Easy Peasy!

Mummy makes awesome rojak! ;)

Mummy makes awesome rojak! 😉

Loved the laksa!

Loved the laksa!

Yummy too!

Yummy too!

At $38++ per adult and $19++ per child (above 6 years old) for a weekend buffet lunch (which ends at 4pm!), we will definitely be back for more! Yes and kids below 6, eat for free! 😉 so even more reason to try right? 🙂

JahBella’s Mummy

Apple Watch Review [Newbies perspective after less than 24 hours]

I guess as the techie of the family, it is only befitting that I should get the newly released Apple Watch as my birthday gift. :p Ok no, its also because I have a sweet husband who knows that I love gadgets especially Apple gadgets. Ironically I have been so busy that I haven’t really had the time to keep track or really read about Apple’s latest product. Which also meant that I only read about all of its functions for the first time, 2 days before the watch was delivered/gifted to me.

So now that the watch has been in my possession for slightly more than 12 hours, I will attempt to review this watch from the perspective of someone who has been using it for less than a day.

What are some of its better features that immediately ‘grabbed’ me within the first 24 hours? What are some of the features that could potentially come in very handy once I get the hang of the watch? And who knows maybe we will have a ‘longevity’ post in a couple of weeks or months on what are the features that I still find useful months down the road.

The Apple Watch was delivered in a solid brown box which looked like I would open it to find an Apple Strudel inside but well it weighed a ton so probably not. I opened it to find a nice white box (typical of the Apple packaging) that was longer than your 15cm ruler (ermm how long was this watch going to be). The watch came in a default M/L length with an additional strap (S/M length) which I later replaced.

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To configure your watch, you just had to make sure that you had the Apple Watch app installed on your iphone, switch on wifi and Bluetooth and follow the instructions on your iPhone screen, easy peasy!! Setting up your notification preferences, favourite people to call, apps to appear on your watch etc was done very simply through the Apple Watch app.

Now that we have ascertain how easy it is to set up. Lets talk about what I think are some of my favourites features from a new user perspective.

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Apple Face

I love how easy it is to customize the watch face. While I would admit that I have not fully explored this function. I have been able to change the look and feel of my watch just by switching between certain in-built options during my initial exploration.

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I also later found out that I could further customize certain ‘parts’ of each chosen face eg. colour of the watch hand or whether I need the day to be indicated. A far cry from my first generation Pebble Watch which was definitely not as interactive and intuitive.  I mean yes, this is an Apple watch after all and therefore as intuitive to use as an iPhone.

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Health Tracker/ Pedometer

I love the Heart rate monitor (don’t ask me why I need it) well I just do! And also love the calorie counter/ pedometer and exercise tracker. I like that there are simple functions that are working in the background and reminding me when to stand up (if I have been sitting for too long) or how many steps I have taken. No need for a separate Up by Jawbone. Potentially I think the exercise tracker might come in very handy when I start using it for cycling trips but we shall have to wait and see if that feature will be easy, accurate and seamless to use.

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WATCH

Well yes I guess at the end of the day, this is supposed to be a watch after all. So yes I am super glad that I can tell the time and date with this but whats even more awesome is that I can tell the time of another city (all within the same view). Super useful during travels and when there is a time difference. I will no longer have to repeatedly check my handphone for the time difference because it is all on my wrist! Oh yes and not forgetting the weather too! Below is just one view of the weather page, tap and you will find the % possibility of rain and the temperature.

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Calendar

Yes, the calendar is going to be ultra ultra useful! Since my office calendar is synced to my iPhone and now synced to my calendar. I will get ‘buzzed’ 15 minutes before every scheduled appointment or class. I honestly think this is going to prove to be super handy for days when I am overwhelmed with classes and meetings.

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Phone Calls

The Apple Watch has Siri installed and allows you to read your SMSes and reply to them either by standard default messages or by dictating your message. I have yet to try out if this Siri is any better from the one on my iPhone or if there are less errors in understanding my dictated message. The one thing I have tried though is receiving a call through the Apple Watch. Personally I probably wouldn’t be using it in public because its just weird to have someone on ‘speaker’ and allowing the whole world to listen in on your conversation. However I would say it probably would come in handy when you need to pick up a call as you are driving. The volume and sensitivity seems pretty good so I’m sure it can pick up my voice even if my hands are on the steering wheel. Good if you don’t have an in-built mic and Bluetooth in your car or for days when you didn’t bother to hook it up.

Oh yes and no more missing calls while my handphone is in my handbag because now I would know that someone is calling me even if I don’t pick up the calls from my watch.

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Camera

While the Apple Watch does not have an in-built camera (I heard that that’s in the works for the next generation?) but it is able to control your handphone camera. Think handphone on selfie stick and not needing a separate Bluetooth clicker device. I guess this has some potential especially for ‘professional’ selfie stick users but this family still needs some figuring out in that area. So some potential there but not sure if it would be that useful for us.

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So my verdict or impression of the Apple Watch after using it for less than 24 hours? I would say pretty decent and it has far exceeded my expectations. Honestly I didn’t expect much from the watch, perhaps because I had owned a Pebble Watch earlier and was abit ‘disappointed’. But of course Apple is not Pebble and for a 1st generation Apple Watch, I say it ticks most of the boxes of what I would hope it could do. I’m still contemplating if I would like to ability to tap on it and perhaps the answer will be more apparent to me in a few weeks/ months time but for now I’m happy with my Apple Watch!

Ok going to play with my watch now..:)

JahBella’s Mummy

Tips on moving with kids – How to stay sane through the move and How to prep your kids

So yes, we completed our big move recently (with one more in the pipeline) but we are all good for now and so I would like to take the time to reflect and share some tips on how we survived our move with kids. Some of these tips were serious points of contention between me and Joel when we couldn’t agree if we should attempt the move in that way. While others were mistakes that we learnt from. 🙂 So here are some of our tips on how to sanely get through a move with kids and please read till the end if you want to find out how we prepped the kids for the move. 🙂

1) Always hire a moving company to relocate you. If this seems like a no-brainer then I would go one step further to say, hire the moving company to do your packing for you! This worked wonders for us because we only had to pack away our personal and essential items (and trust me even that takes awhile). The movers did all the heavy stuff like packing up our storeroom, kitchen, wardrobes and all the knick knacks which would have taken us weeks!!!! And yes you don’t have the luxury of packing up over weeks and living out of boxes or suitcases if you have little monkeys children running around…:p

It would have taken us 10 times as long or more to pack our kitchen...

It would have taken us 10 times as long or more to pack our kitchen…

2) Always move on a weekday when the kids are in school or childcare. Yes while it might be tempting to save a day of leave and just do it over the weekend. It will be a lot less stressful if the kids were out of your hair and you didn’t have to think of which kid has to come with you or when you need to get lunch for them. If you don’t have the option of school or childcare then get help from someone to babysit but bottomline is try not to have them around as you are making that physical move (i.e 9am to 5pm)

3) Prepack a few days worth of clothes, fresh towels, PJs etc, as if you were going away for a short holiday or staycation. Live out of that suitcase the night before the move and for how many more days you forsee the unpacking to take. This is especially important when you have kids because kids can’t live out of boxes full stop. They will not appreciate you, opening boxes after boxes to find their favourite stuff toy or that school uniform that they need to wear to school tomorrow.

4) Try your best to be present when your movers are packing up for you and then be as specific as possible when labeling the boxes. This is also applicable if you were packing on your own. Trust me a box that says Storeroom versus a box that says Storeroom – Shoes, makes a world of a difference. Especially when you have 20 boxes named store room which have been moved into your new storeroom and you realize at 10pm that 1 of those 20 boxes contains shoes which you need to wear to work tomorrow. Happy searching indeed!

5) Always take leave the day after you move and this also means, do not move on a Friday! Kids are not fun to have around the house when there are tons of unpack boxes stacked up to the ceiling in your bedrooms, living room and kitchen. And unless you were living in a relatively empty house before (we were living in a toyshop) or you move at superhero break neck unpacking speed, there is no way that your house will be ‘unpacked’ and freed of boxes during the first 24 hours of the move. Yes, so take your leave and get cracking! And after that if you think you need to recover from the move then take another day of leave again. :p So my recommendation is that a move with children would require you to take about 3 days of leave 😉

6) Ensure that the kids rooms are the first rooms which you make live-able again. If there is 1 thing which you absolutely must accomplish/ clear/ unpack/ get ready in the new house whilst moving, make it the kids room. This will give them a place to hangout when they come home and not have the boxes in the way or they in the way of the boxes. This also helps with the emotional part which I am going to touch on next.

This was the initial set-up which we tweaked again days later but at least we got it 'up and running' the first day...

This was the initial set-up which we tweaked again days later but at least we got it ‘up and running’ the first day…

Now that we got the logistical nightmare stuff out of the way. Lets take abit about the emotional side of things. If your kid is 0 to 2 years old like Bella, she will unlikely be too affected by the move. So long as she sees the same usual faces (family members) and given her same comforts (pacifier, blankie, stuff toy etc – that is why it is important to pack them personally into your suitcase). Kids of that age should pretty much bounced right back (literally) and she would probably never ever remember the ‘old house’.

Kids who are older than 3 years old (like Jah) might find it abit more of a shock to their system and might possibly get emotional about things. The way to deal with it is to prep, talk, listen and prep somemore. We prep Jah very very early on when we knew we were going to move even as early as when we were marketing our place for sale.

He was told why strangers were coming to his house and his room to look around. He was told that it was necessary if he wanted to move to his new house. We ‘sold’ him the good things about the new house and the exciting changes we could make to his room. He talked to him, we ‘prepped’ him and we made sure we listened to what he had to say. Not that there was another other option but the moment he sounded unsure or apprehensive about the move, we listened and we addressed and tried to steer things towards the positive. We also got him to reassure us back that he understood what this move etc was about.

Things got abit tricky for us as we had to do an interim move and then had to explain again why there was an interim move and then we named our rental place, the ‘ temporary house’ so as not to confuse him. This helped give him some clarity on what to expect and he was prepared and actually really excited about the move.

Upselling the fun stuff! :p

Upselling the fun stuff! :p

Before the movers came to pack things up in boxes, we prepped him. The night before the move, we prepped him. When he was leaving for school on the morning of the move, we prepped him and reminded him that he would not be coming back to this house after school tonight. I think as adults we sometimes get so caught up in the big things, the obvious things, the great move that we forget it might be confusing for the little one to go off to school from one house and then to never return there again. There can never be too much prepping, at least not for this. :p

Which brings me back to some of my tips about labeling boxes well and taking leave to unpack quickly because the faster you revert to some semblance of normal life for them and allow them to be surrounded by familiar items (clothes, beds, toys, bed sheets, blankets, utensils) etc, the faster they adapt to the new ‘shell’ or environment.

We are really fortunate that both our kids took very well to the move. In fact, I am amazed at how forward looking Jah is. When asked if he misses his old house and whether he would like to say goodbye ‘Punggol’ House as we pass it on the expressway. His response was, “no, no need to say good bye to Punggol House mummy, its Hello! Temporary House!” We are really glad that they have transitioned so well and I would like to think some or all of that prepping has help to ease the transition and I hope these tips will help you and I again for our next move….Until the next move 🙂

JahBella’s Mummy